So I applied to a bunch of different positions for this summer in my field. I got accepted into a really sweet one in Greensboro, NC at UNC-G and assuming that I wasn't getting into my top choice, Cornell, I took it last Tuesday. I did ask for an extension to wait to hear back from others but she wouldn't give it to me.
I found out today that I got into Cornell and went back on saying yes to the other and the lady (it's just one person luckily, and not a committee as at most schools) pretty much freaked out on me and hung up twice. I understand her anger but I thought she overreacted quite a bit. I know what I did was unethical but hanging up twice on me and yelling about how I need to grow up seemed a bit irrational for someone tenured.
I'm worried she may email some people just trying to make me look bad. I'm not as worried about my recommendors as I am about her emailing people at Cornell.
Does anyone think she may do this or am I just worrying too much?